2023-12-12

find your 2%ers

A personal exploration of introversion and extroversion challenges traditional definitions, suggesting that energy exchange in relationships is key. The author introduces the concept of '2%ers' - rare individuals who energize rather than drain - and emphasizes the importance of finding and maintaining relationships with these people for happiness and fulfillment.

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